I thought it was important to post these. Moira asked me to be positive in this post. But honesty is important. And negative things happen and you should address them.

This was a big event in our lives and we should remember it. We learned a lot.

Its been a surreal few days. Sunday our apartment was burnt down by two crack addicts; two days later one of them was casually strolling by our house (out on bail); and today we signed the papers to close on our new condo. I will post pics of those when we move in this weekend....to be positive.
(Melted Fan)

We had a lot of memories in this apartment. My brother Joe got the apartment in 1999 after he left Harvard; we moved in with him about six months later. Joe moved out to go to New York the next year and we have had several roomates since. A lot has gone done since then: two presidential elections, several jobs, many friends, three roomates, 9/11, marriage, Vincent, and two weeks before we were to move out-this.

I was going to write all these little essays about the craziness of the last two days: the anger, stupidity, the police, race in america, how bad people are, how great people are, etc. But, we are kind of over it. We still have a lot to deal with, but we are all ok.

I thought I would flip out when I saw the guy who did it, but I wasn't even that angry. The guy was in another dimension. Truly a different dimension. Not even sure he realized what he did. The assistant DA says they "didn't mean it"('it' being burning down the house); hence no arson charge. "Out in six months" says one of the policemen. "At least a year till trail" says another.
The lawyer from our closing gave us some perspective today saying "In ten years, you will have a good laugh about this". Perhaps. I dont know that I will be "laughing" about this, but I will be proud of how Moira, Vince, and I made it through. And its a great feeling to have had our parents, siblings, friends, and strangers be so ready to drop everything and help us. Truly great.
Maybe I will smile a little bit.
So now that I got that out of my system, ladies and gentleman, let's bring back the star of the show....